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How to Wear a Hat
Plenty of people are convinced they cannot wear hats. Almost always it is a proportion problem rather than a face problem, and proportion is fixable.
There is no such thing as a face that hats do not suit. There are only hats in the wrong proportion to the face wearing them.
If you have tried a few hats, disliked all of them and quietly concluded the problem is you, we get it. Nobody is born knowing this.
We have been fitting hats for ladies and women of every age for thirty years, and the pattern almost never changes. She tells us hats do not suit her. She is wearing the wrong size, at the wrong angle, in a shape that works against her face, or the hat has lost its own shape somewhere along the way. Change those and she looks in the mirror and sees herself.
There is a fourth thing nobody quite says out loud. Stepping past a baseball cap into a wide brim or a beret can feel like putting on a costume. You stand in the hallway, put it on, take it off, put it on again, and leave without it. If that is you, you are in good company. Fortunately that feeling is usually about fit and angle rather than nerve, and those two are fixable. Nerve is harder to order in.
We start with the free fixes, because usually that is all it takes. If you already know the hat slides, pinches or sits on your ears, skip ahead to the fit section. No amount of angling rescues a hat that does not fit.
None of it depends on having hair. Through treatment, for thinning hair, or because you have always liked hats, the same things apply, and there is a section further down for the questions that come with hair loss.
Have You Tried Moving It?
Start here, because it is free, it takes thirty seconds and it rescues more hats than anything else on this page. If a hat does not look right when you first put it on, before you decide it is the wrong hat, move it.
This is the most common mistake by a distance. Hats get worn too high, perched on top of the head rather than sitting on it, and the hat ends up looking borrowed while the face underneath looks longer than it is. A hat wants to sit roughly along your hairline, or where your hairline was. Bring it down and look again before you change anything else. It is often the whole problem.
Worn a little forward, a brim shortens the face and adds a little mystery. Worn back, it opens the face up and reads friendlier. Neither is right, but one will be right for you and for that hat.
Very few faces are perfectly symmetrical, and a hat worn dead straight can quietly draw attention to that. Tilt it slightly to one side, then the other. One of the two will suit you better and you will know it when you see it.
Hardly anyone tries this and it changes a hat completely. Turn it up all the way round and the hat opens the face up. Turn up one side only and you get an asymmetry that flatters a round or a square face, because it introduces the diagonal those shapes do not have. Many of our brims have a wire running through them, so they will hold whatever shape you put them in and you can keep changing your mind.
Knit caps and beanies can come down over the ears, and often should in winter. Structured and brimmed hats should sit clear of them, roughly an eighth to half an inch above. A brimmed hat resting on your ears is telling you something: too big, too deep, or simply sitting too low.
A mirror keeps your eye on the unfamiliar thing on your head. A photograph shows you the whole person, which is what everybody else is looking at. Turn and check your profile too, since that is how most of the world sees you and a hat can read very differently from the side.
Send the photo to someone whose eye you trust, if you have one. They will tell you in four seconds what you can stare at for ten minutes without deciding. And do not judge from the first two seconds either. A new outline around your own face is strange to you long before it is strange to anyone else.
Before you blame the fit or the angle, look at the hat itself. A crown gone soft, a wave in the brim, or creases from a few weeks folded in a drawer will make a perfectly good hat look wrong, and no amount of adjusting will touch it. This is worth ruling out first, because it is the one cause that has nothing to do with you.
Put gloves on first. That is what we do here, and any gloves you have around will do. Work a hand steamer inside the hat to begin with and then over the outside, which takes out most creases on its own. For a brim that has lost its line, steam it until it softens, work it back into shape with your hands, then hold it there for a slow count of thirty. The shape sets as it cools rather than while it is warm, so that last part is the part that matters. Never steam a hat while you are wearing it.
Our guide to caring for hats and scarves has the full method and which materials take steam. Not everything does, so check the label first and keep steam away from glued trim, sequins, feathers and any hair attached to a hat.
Why Doesn't This Hat Look Right?
When a hat feels wrong and you cannot say why, look at what its crown and its brim are adding to your face. A taller crown adds length. A wider brim adds width. A rounded crown softens. A pinched or structured one sharpens. That is the whole mechanism, and once you can see it you can read any hat in a shop window.
The usual way to use it is contrast. A round face is balanced by angles and height. A strong square jaw is softened by curves. A long face is shortened by width. Usual, though, not compulsory. Plenty of round faces look wonderful in a cloche, which is about as round as a hat gets, because the wearer liked it and tilted it and that showed.
If you have ever tried a hat on and thought it made your face look longer, or wider, or just somehow off, without being able to say why, this is why. You were reading the effect correctly the whole time. You simply did not have a name for it.
Guidelines, not rules
- A crown narrower than your cheekbones makes the face below it look wider by comparison. That is what the eye does with it, rather than something you are doing wrong.
- A brim wider than your shoulders stops being an accessory and becomes the outfit. Sometimes that is exactly the point, and on a sun hat it usually is, since the brim is there to do a job.
Neither is a rule you can fail. They describe an effect, and knowing the effect is what lets you decide whether you want it.
Match the hat to your frame
Size matters as much as shape. A small, fine-boned frame is overwhelmed by a large dramatic hat, and a tall or fuller frame can carry a brim that would swamp someone else.
Proportion is the whole game. Everything below is a variation on it.
What Shape Is Your Face?
Five shapes cover almost everyone. Two of them have close cousins, diamond and pear, and those are folded in with the shape they behave most like rather than given a category of their own.
One thing before you start, because it saves people a lot of squinting. Most women assume they are round. Far fewer actually are. What reads as roundness is usually softness at the jaw, and a soft jaw turns up on oval and heart faces just as often. So if round is your instinct, hold it loosely for a minute.
Two questions that do most of the work
- Forehead: likely heart or oblong
- Cheekbones: likely oval, round or diamond
- Jaw: likely square or pear
- Soft and rounded: oval or round
- Angular, with a defined corner: square
- Tapering to a point: heart or oval
Those two answers together will usually land you on one shape, or narrow it to two. If you want to confirm it, pull your hair back, stand close to a mirror and trace your outline onto the glass with a bar of soap or an old lipstick. Step back and look at what you drew. It takes thirty seconds and it is usually a surprise.
Pick the one that looks most like you
Oval
An oval face is slightly longer than it is wide, with a gently rounded hairline and a jaw a little narrower than the temples. Balanced, in other words.
Best hats for an oval face: almost anything, which is a real advantage rather than a cop-out. Fedoras, cloches, bucket hats, berets, wide brims and baseball caps all sit well on a balanced face. Spend your attention on scale and on what suits your wardrobe instead.
What to watch: scale more than shape. An oversized hat can tip a balanced face out of balance, which is the one thing an oval face has to lose.
Oval subtype · Diamond
If your face is diamond-shaped
Widest at the cheekbones, with a narrower forehead and a narrower jaw. The tell that separates it from a heart shape is the hairline: a diamond's is narrow, a heart's is broad. Most oval guidance applies, with two adjustments.
A little width at the forehead helps, since that is where you have least. Berets and newsboy caps do it naturally.
A lower crown tends to suit you better than a tall one, and anything that adds bulk at cheekbone level is adding width at your widest point.
Round
A round face is roughly as wide as it is long, with soft curves throughout: full cheeks, a rounded chin, a curved hairline and no sharp angles anywhere.
Best hats for a round face: height and structure. A taller or more defined crown, clean lines, and asymmetry. Fedoras, newsboy caps and structured brimmed styles all do this. If a brim is straight, wearing it at a slant introduces the diagonal your face does not have.
What changes the effect: a rounded crown pulled straight down repeats the curve you already have, and fullness at the cheeks adds width where there is width.
Prefer a rounded hat anyway? Plenty of round faces look wonderful in a cloche, which is about as round as a hat gets. Lift the front a little, add a tilt, or push the fullness toward the back so the hat is not echoing the same curve in every direction.
Heart
A heart-shaped face is widest at the forehead and cheekbones, narrowing to a small or pointed chin. The hairline is broad.
Best hats for a heart-shaped face: a medium brim, which really is the answer here rather than a hedge. Cloches, medium-brim fedoras, baseball caps and structured caps all sit well. Asymmetric brims are flattering.
What changes the effect: the two opposite extremes. A very small brim makes the forehead look wider, and a very wide or floppy one makes the chin look narrower by comparison. If you love a wide brim, wear it, and expect it to be dramatic rather than balancing.
Square
A square face has a strong, defined jawline and a broad forehead, with roughly the same width across forehead, cheekbones and jaw. About as wide as it is long, but with angles where a round face has curves.
Best hats for a square face: curves. Rounded crowns, bucket hats, berets, bowlers and soft slouchy shapes all contrast nicely with a defined jaw. Wearing the brim at an angle helps, and a hat sitting a little higher on the forehead lengthens the lower half of the face.
What changes the effect: flat tops, tapered crowns and sharp geometric lines echo the jaw rather than balancing it. A structured hat can still look excellent on you, particularly with a curved brim or worn slightly off-center.
Square subtype · Pear
If your face is pear-shaped
Narrow at the forehead and widest at the jaw, usually with a rounded chin. The reverse of a heart. You are still softening a wider jaw, but you also want a little width at the top to meet it.
Width and interest above the eyes does the work. A full crown rather than a tapered one, a reasonably wide brim, or detail at the crown. Anything that draws the eye upward balances the jaw.
A tapered crown works against you, narrowing exactly where you want width and making the jaw look wider by contrast.
Oblong
An oblong face, sometimes called a long or rectangular face, is noticeably longer than it is wide, with a similar width at the forehead and cheekbones. Often a high forehead or a longer chin, and the sides run fairly straight rather than curving.
Best hats for an oblong face: width and a low crown. Wide flat brims, floppy brims and cloches worn low all shorten the face. Pulling the brim down toward your eyebrows shortens it further and is the single most effective adjustment on this shape.
What changes the effect: tall crowns and narrow brims both add length you already have. A high-profile cap is not off limits, but wear it lower and pair it with something that adds width rather than pointing straight up.
If you are between two shapes
Most people are a blend of two rather than a textbook example of one. These are the tiebreakers that usually settle it.
Oval vs round
Compare length to width. Roughly equal means round. Noticeably longer than wide means oval. Round also tends to be soft everywhere, with no angle anywhere on the face.
Oval vs heart
Look at the chin. Rounded is oval. Pointed or clearly tapered is heart. That is the whole tiebreaker. A widow's peak appears on both and settles nothing.
Round vs heart
Both can be full through the upper face. The chin decides it again. A round chin is soft and full with no taper. A heart chin narrows to a clear point.
Oval vs oblong
Both are longer than wide. Look at the sides. An oval curves and tapers like an egg. An oblong runs mostly straight down. If your cheek line looks straight rather than curved, that is oblong.
Does It Actually Fit?
If you have moved it, checked what the crown and brim are doing, and it still looks wrong, this is usually why. A hat that does not fit will never look right, however well the shape suits you. It rides up, it sits on the ears, it slides back, and the wearer concludes she does not suit hats. Fortunately it is also the most fixable thing on this page.
Soft hats, turbans, beanies and pre-tied scarves are cut with enough give to suit a wide range of head sizes, so for most of our styles you do not need to measure anything. Measuring matters for structured and brimmed hats, which have a fixed circumference and no stretch to fall back on.
How to measure your head
For a soft, full-coverage hat, follow your natural hairline. Start at the middle of your forehead, go above each ear, round the nape and back to where you began. That is the line the hat itself will sit on.
For a structured or brimmed hat, keep the tape level all the way round instead, across the middle of your forehead, just above your ears and around the fullest part of the back of your head. That is where the band sits.
Snug, not tight, either way. No tape measure? A length of string against a ruler does the same job. And if you will be wearing the hat over a wig, thick hair or braids, measure with them on.
Take it twice and use the number you get both times. Pull the tape the way you would want the hat to feel, which is close but not gripping.
This is the rule that saves the most disappointment. A hat slightly too big is usually easier to adjust. Whether a snug one can be let out depends on how it is made.
| Size | Head circumference | Who it fits |
|---|---|---|
| Petite | Under 21" | Smaller heads. We keep a petite hats collection so you can skip the ones that will swim on you. |
| Average | 21" to 22.5" | Most women fall here, and it has the widest style selection. |
| Large | 22.5" and up | Our large hats are cut with the extra room already built in. |
The band decides whether a hat fits around your head. The crown depth decides whether it settles into place or perches on top. Two hats can measure the same and behave completely differently.
This matters more than usual if you have no hair, because hair takes up room. A hat that fit perfectly last year can feel loose and sit lower now, and that is depth talking rather than size. A liner or a wide headband underneath puts that volume back.
The crown has too little room
- It sits noticeably high on your head
- It creeps upward through the day
- It feels balanced on top rather than settled
- Your temples, ears or nape are more exposed than you wanted
Tightening the band will not fix any of this. There is no more room inside to find.
The crown has too much room
- It drops toward your eyebrows
- It rests heavily on your ears
- You keep pushing it backward
- It feels loose even though the band measurement is right
A liner or a wide headband underneath takes up the space and often solves it outright. A headband is the better bet under a shallower style like a fedora, where it also extends the edge a little.
Stop and size up
- A pronounced line across your forehead
- Pressure at the temples
- It pushes the arms of your glasses inward
- It rides upward instead of settling
- It gives you a headache
- You cannot forget you are wearing it
Do not wait for a tight hat to break in. A structured one softens a little, but pressure, headache or redness means the fit is wrong now.
It needs taking in
- It rotates or slides backward
- The brim drops onto your ears or eyes
- You keep pulling it forward
- A structured crown rocks front to back
- It only feels secure pushed unusually low
- Light wind takes it
A hat that is too big does not sit where you put it. It slides down until something stops it, which is usually your ears or your eyebrows.
Taking a hat in
Hat sizing tape is a foam strip that sticks inside the sweatband and takes up the extra room. Add it a little at a time and try the hat between each go, since a small amount changes the fit more than you expect.
A thin headband worn underneath does much the same and adds grip, which is useful if a hat tends to slide.
There is a limit, and the hat will tell you where it is. If it still drops onto your ears, rotates or rocks front to back after you have added tape, the size or the crown depth is wrong, and no additional tape will fix it.
When a hat is snug
There is less you can do than with a hat that is too big, which is why sizing up is the safer bet when you are between sizes. Soft knits give a little with wear. Structured hats do not.
If most hats feel tight on you, shop the sizes rather than fighting them: we keep separate collections for larger head sizes and smaller head sizes, which saves a lot of guesswork.
Structured hats are a different matter. A straw, a stiffened brim or anything with a built band cannot usually be altered, because the shape is built into the hat rather than sewn into a seam. So if you are hard to fit at either end and nothing off the shelf is right, look at soft styles rather than structured ones. They are the ones that can be made to fit you.
Fitting the hat to your frame
Head size is one thing, overall scale is another. A hat that fits your head can still be the wrong size for the rest of you.
If you are petite
Look for a lower crown and a smaller brim. Large dramatic hats tend to wear you rather than the other way round. Cloches are particularly good on a petite frame because they keep everything close to the head.
If you are tall
A wider brim with a shorter crown balances height. Narrow, angular hats can exaggerate it. You can carry a brim that would overwhelm someone smaller, so enjoy it.
If you are fuller figured
A wider brim balances your proportions, where a small hat can look stranded. Full brims and generous shapes are your friends.
Wearing a hat with glasses
Glasses change three things at once: how the hat looks, how it feels, and how much you can see. Worth its own minute, and the first rule is simply to try hats on wearing the glasses you actually wear rather than bare-faced.
How it looks
Turning the brim up, or sitting the hat a little further back, keeps the brim line and the tops of your frames from stacking together and cluttering your eye area.
Keep the crown at least as wide as your cheekbones so your glasses are not the widest thing on your face. Heavy or bold frames balance better under a hat with some presence of its own than under something very small.
How it feels
The band should not press the arms of your frames into your temples or into the bone behind your ear, and the brim should not keep knocking them.
If it does, the hat is the problem rather than your tolerance. Try a softer band, a size up, a shallower placement, or a style cut higher around the ears. Do not force the frames above or under a tight band to make it work, because that usually just moves the pressure somewhere else.
A hat that slides forward will also push your glasses down your nose all day. That one is a fit problem rather than a glasses problem, and sizing tape usually solves it.
Anything that comes down below the ears puts fabric between the arms of your glasses and your head, and that changes things. The arms sit on cloth rather than skin, so the glasses have less to grip and tend to creep. Put the headwear on first and rest the arms over the top of it rather than tunnelling them underneath, which is what drags the piece out of place every time you take your glasses off. A thin liner underneath adds grip and stops the whole thing shifting.
There is one more thing, and it is the reason glasses feel different once your hair has gone. Glasses draw the eye straight to the space in front of your ears, which is precisely where hair used to be and now is not. If that bothers you, it is not the hat. A halo, or a small piece of stick-on hair at the temples, puts something back exactly where the eye is already looking.
Styling It
The shape suits you, it fits, and the angle is right. Now for the part that is actually fun: building outfits with hats rather than just wearing one. These are the styling tips we give most often, and they start with making a single hat do the work of four.
Contrast your textures
A denim hat with a denim shirt is a lot of denim. The same hat with a plaid cotton or a soft fleece is positively dashing, because variety in texture is what the eye enjoys.
The same idea as the face shape rule, applied to fabric. Contrast rather than match.
Match tones, not colors
An exact match tends to read as a set rather than an outfit. Matching the underlying tone works better: warm with warm, cool with cool. A warm cream hat with a red dress, or a cool grey with a blue blouse.
If you are buying one hat to go with everything, a neutral will earn its keep several times over.
Keep the aesthetics in the same world
A velvet turban and casual shorts are pulling in different directions, and so are a sun hat and a cocktail dress. Pair the turban with the dress and the sun hat with the shorts, and both look deliberate.
Start plain if you want range
A simple hat in a neutral color is the one you will get the most out of, because it takes accessories well and goes with far more than you would think. Save the statement pieces for when you already have a plain one you rely on.
Hat Accessories: Turning One Hat Into Several
Buying hats can feel like an expensive habit to start, particularly if you think you need one to go with everything you own. Fortunately you do not. You need one good hat and a few things to put on it, and the things cost a fraction of the hats.
An elastic or beaded headband slipped around the base of the crown completely changes a hat's character. A plain cotton cap becomes something else entirely with a beaded band on it, and there is a band out there for every mood you have, from hippy to Hepburn. Swapping one takes five seconds.
Clipped at the side of the crown, a flower pin or brooch adds a great deal for very little. Seasonal ones are worth having if you enjoy that sort of thing, and a snowflake in December is a small pleasure. See our hat accessories →
A craft shop will sell you ribbon, silk flowers, buttons and beading for very little, and a plain cap is an excellent thing to have opinions about. We sell the finished versions and we will happily keep doing that, but if you enjoy making things, this is one of the easiest places to start.
A small accessory scarf tied around the crown adds color and a bit of character. Braid three thin ones together, twist two, or tie one into a bow or a rosette at the side. Three braided is our favorite, and nobody has ever guessed it started life as a plain cotton cap.
A hat draws the eye upward, and earrings catch it and bring it back to your face. If you have lost your hair, statement earrings are particularly effective at balancing the look and putting the focus where you want it. Ours are hypoallergenic, which is worth having when treatment has made your skin touchier than it used to be.
How to Wear a Hat With Hair, or Without It
Ask women what puts them off hats and this is usually the first thing they say. Not how the hat looks. What is underneath it when it comes off. Hat hair, or hat head, whichever you call it: flat at the crown, a dent all the way round, static, frizz.
They tell us they put a hat on in the morning and feel committed to it until bedtime. If that is you, you are not being vain. Most of it is friction and pressure rather than the hat itself, which is why fit and lining help so much.
How to avoid hat hair
Before it goes on
- Make sure the hat is deep enough. A hat that presses into your hair rather than resting on your head is what creates the dent. Crown depth does more damage here than circumference.
- Put the hat on last. Fully dry hair, styled, then the hat. Damp hair sets into whatever shape you press it into.
- Wear a smooth liner underneath. Friction is what causes static and frizz, so a smooth bamboo liner between your hair and a wool or acrylic hat makes a noticeable difference. Curly and textured hair benefits most.
- Loose waves beat a smooth blow dry. Texture recovers from a hat. A sleek finish shows every mark.
After it comes off
- Tip your head over and shake it out. Sounds too simple. Fixes most of it.
- Work at the roots, not the lengths. The dent is a crown problem. Fingers at the roots, lifting rather than smoothing.
- A little water at the crown and a quick rough dry resets a stubborn ring faster than anything else.
- Give it a minute. Hair relaxes on its own once the pressure comes off, so the worst moment is the first one. Take the hat off before you walk in rather than at the table.
Flattening is not the issue. Grip, warmth and how the hat feels against your scalp are, and a soft liner or a thin gripper band helps with all three without changing how the hat looks.
A hat does not need hair under it to look finished either. Coverage at the hairline and a little shape are what make it read as chosen rather than borrowed.
Hat hairstyles, by hair type
Hair also changes how a hat sits and how it reads. Here is what helps in each case.
With long hair
Long hair looks fabulous under a hat. Wearing a hat with long hair comes down to two questions, though, and the second is the one that gets forgotten: which hats suit it, and what to do with the length once the hat is on.
Which hats. Structure. A firm crown and a defined brim give the eye a clean line to read against all that movement. A soft, floppy hat tends to blend into long hair and lose its own outline, so hat and hair read as one shape and neither wins. Fedoras, structured wide brims, newsboy caps and cloches all hold their line. Soft styles are not out, but wear a beanie loosely rather than pulled down.
Where to put the length. This is the part people get wrong, and it changes the look more than the hat does.
- All down, parted in the middle, under a sun hat or wide brim. Straight lines balance a big brim rather than competing with it.
- Half up, the top gathered loosely and the rest left falling. Good under bucket hats and caps, and it keeps hair off your face without losing the length.
- A low ponytail through the back of a cap. Low is the easiest height under a closed crown, because anything higher competes with the hat for the same space. A high ponytail works fine with an open-back cap or a hat made for one.
- Two braids, parted down the middle. The best answer if your hair is thick, because it takes the bulk out from under the crown instead of packing it in.
- One side tucked behind the ear, under a cloche or a baseball cap. Softens a cloche, smartens a cap, and shows an earring.
- Wavy and loose under a fedora or a newsboy cap. The texture suits the attitude of those styles, and waves survive a hat far better than a smooth blow dry.
And two things worth doing before you go out. A lot of hair takes up room, so a deeper crown will sit better than a shallow one. And before the hat goes on, lift the hair at your crown with your fingers to leave a pocket of air underneath. That small gap is most of the difference between a dent and no dent.
With short hair
Short hair and hats are smashing companions, and wearing a hat with short hair is easier than most people expect. With no length to hide behind, the hat becomes the feature. Its shape shows completely, which is why the right hat on short hair looks deliberate rather than merely fine.
It cuts both ways, mind. The fit shows just as clearly, because there is no volume to disguise a hat that is slightly too big. That is why short hair and a borrowed-looking hat turn up together so often.
Which hats, by cut.
- A pixie: beanies, especially slouchy ones, and baseball caps. A side-swept fringe showing under a beanie is one of the best combinations there is.
- A bob: berets and structured caps. A blunt or sleek bob under a beret is the classic, and it is classic because it works.
- Growing out, or an awkward in-between length: bucket hats. The crown sits lightly rather than pressing down, so it does not flatten your layers or your fringe.
- Any short cut: a wide brim. The width balances how close the cut sits to your head, which is why short hair and a big brim look so intentional together.
- Winter: short hair leaves your ears and neck far more exposed than you are used to, so warmth matters more than it did. Winter hats for short hair want depth and coverage rather than a shallow perch. A cuffed beanie pulled over the ears, a wool cloche, or a lined newsboy cap all suit ladies with short hair and keep the cold off. Many older women find a soft lined style the most comfortable of the lot.
- Use a little care with very tall crowns, such as a bowler. Without length to balance the height, they can tip into costume on a very short cut.
And what to do with it.
- Let some of it show. A fringe, side pieces, whatever you have at the front. A hat pulled down over everything reads severe.
- Wear it a little higher than you would with long hair, so the shape of the cut stays visible under it.
- Tuck one side behind your ear. Breaks the silhouette and shows an earring.
- A little texture at the roots first if your hair goes flat, since there is less of it to spring back on its own.
- Add a band or a scarf around the crown. It brings back texture that longer hair would otherwise provide.
- Wear earrings. A pixie cut, a brim and a pair of dangly earrings. Is there anything cooler?
With curly or textured hair
Wearing a hat with curly hair takes a little negotiating, because the two things that ruin a curl pattern are compression and friction, and a hat delivers both.
- A smooth liner underneath is the single biggest fix. A soft, smooth liner reduces the rubbing against wool or acrylic that causes most of the frizz and breakage, without flattening the curl the way a hat's own lining can. Note that smooth reduces rubbing rather than adding hold. If your problem is the hat sliding rather than the frizz, you want a gripper band instead.
- Choose a deeper crown so your curls have somewhere to go instead of being compressed against your scalp.
- Wear it looser and further back than you would with straight hair, so the hat is resting rather than clamping.
- Let some length out at the front and sides. A few curls loose around the brim reads relaxed and deliberate, if that is the look you want. A fully covered style is equally polished, and plenty of women prefer it. What matters more either way is not crushing the curl in the first place.
With fine or very smooth hair
Wearing a hat with fine or very smooth hair brings two problems, and they are opposites.
Hats slide off. Smooth hair gives a hat nothing to hold onto, so beanies in particular creep backward until they are hanging off the back of your head. This is a friction problem rather than a size problem, so sizing tape will not help. A thin headband worn underneath gives the hat something to grip, a scarf gripper does the same job and is made for it, and a little texture spray at the roots works too.
And the dent shows. Fine hair marks more easily and has less volume to hide it. Keep the hat as loose as it will sit without sliding, and lift at the roots rather than brushing when it comes off.
With thinning hair or no hair
Wearing a hat with no hair, or with hair that is thinning, can feel stark at first, and the usual instinct is to blame the hat. In most cases the hat is fine. What is missing is the small amount of volume and edge that hair used to provide, and that is easy to put back.
- A hat with hair already attached. The simplest answer, and the one most people reach for when they want to stop thinking about it. See hats with hair →
- A halo, or attachable bangs. Both put a little hair back at the edges without the weight of a wig, and a halo can be swapped between every hat you own. How the three options compare →
- A padded headband or a volumizer worn underneath, which restores fullness and gives the hat a shape to sit on. See volumizers →
- A soft liner, which adds a little shape as well as stopping a hat feeling scratchy on a sensitive scalp. It also means you can wash the liner rather than the hat.
- Statement earrings, which do more work here than in any other situation. They pull attention back to your face and balance the whole look.
And if a hat still is not sitting comfortably with you, a pre-tied scarf is just as easy to put on and gives a different kind of fullness and framing. Plenty of people move between the two depending on the day. Our cancer hats guide goes further into coverage, fabric and staying cool.
Adding hair back: halos, bangs and hats with hair
Here is the thing that makes this much easier than it sounds. Under a hat, the only hair anyone can see is at the edges. The crown is covered. So you do not need a head of hair, you need edges, and edges are light, cool and inexpensive in a way a full wig is not.
Three ways to do it, and they suit different people.
- A hat with the hair already in it. Sewn in at the sides and nape, ready to put on, nothing to line up. The simplest of the three and the one most women pick when they want to stop thinking about it. The trade-off is that the hair belongs to that hat, so a second look means a second hat.
- A halo worn under any hat. A band with hair attached that sits around the circumference of your head, so hair falls at the sides and the back while the crown stays open. Halos and hats are natural partners, because a halo has nothing on top and a hat covers exactly that. One halo can work under a good many of your hats, as long as each has enough depth to hide the band, and the open crown makes it noticeably cooler than a wig.
- Attachable bangs. A fringe on its own, fixed inside the front edge of a hat, turban or pre-tied scarf. The lightest and least committal option. If what you miss is the framing at the front rather than length at the back, this is the one, and it is the cheapest way to change how a hat reads on you.
And they are not really three separate choices, which is the part worth knowing. Bangs attach to our Instant Hair headband as readily as to a hat. Hook-and-loop strips are sewn into the band, so a fringe presses on and pulls off in seconds, and it can sit at the front, at the back, or at both ends at once. One headband and one set of bangs gives you a fringe one day and length at the nape the next. Add a second set and you can wear both at once.
How to Wear a Sun Hat
Everything above is about how a hat looks. A summer hat is the exception, because a sun hat is also doing work, and how you wear it decides how much work it actually does.
Wear it level
A brim only protects what it shades. Tip it back and you have just uncovered your forehead, your nose and the part of your scalp that burns first.
Level is less flattering than tilted, and on a long afternoon outdoors it is the right trade. Save the angle for the walk to the car.
Then keep it on
Wind is the usual reason a sun hat comes off and stays off. If yours lifts easily it is probably a shade too big, so the fix is back in the fit section. An inner band or a chin cord holds a wide brim on a properly blustery day.
An uncovered scalp can burn surprisingly fast, especially when the sun is high or a medication has made your skin more sensitive, so it is worth the small fuss of keeping the hat on rather than waiting until your scalp feels hot.
In our experience the women who get caught out are the ones who were never sun-sensitive and had no reason to think anything had changed. Ask your care team whether yours needs extra care. In the meantime, more brim rather than less, and sunscreen on everything the hat does not cover. Our cancer hats guide covers what to look for when you are choosing one.
The Styles People Ask About
Every style has a useful starting position, and nobody ever tells you what it is. Here is where each one wants to start, and the first thing to try if it is not working.
| Style | Where to start | First thing to try |
|---|---|---|
| Classic beanie | Front edge at the hairline or just above the brows | Leave some fullness at the crown rather than pulling it flat |
| Fisherman beanie | Cuff rolled high, above the ears | Show more forehead so the short silhouette reads deliberate |
| Slouchy beanie | Secure at the hairline, fullness pushed back | Arrange the slouch rather than letting it collapse |
| Soft chemo cap | At the natural hairline, covering temples to nape | Smooth the band and set any pleats where they show |
| Turban or headwrap | Secure at the hairline, full coverage all round | Move the knot or twist slightly off-center |
| Baseball cap | Crown fully seated, bill above the brows | Lift the front if the bill is hiding your eyes |
| Cloche | Lower on the forehead than most brimmed hats | Angle it gently, keep your eyes visible |
| Bucket hat | Brim framing the face, not covering the eyes | Tip it back or toward one side |
| Fedora | Centered, above the ears and brows | Drop one side of the brim slightly |
| Sun hat | Level and secure, the brim doing the shading | Use an inner band or chin cord if it is windy |
| Newsboy cap | Band secure near the hairline | Push the fullness toward one side |
| Beret | Band secure around the head | Shift the body to one side or slightly back |
Beanies: cuffed, rolled up or slouchy?
A beanie is three different hats depending on how you wear it, which is why the same one can suit you on Tuesday and not on Wednesday.
- A single cuff, sitting just above the eyebrows. The classic. Covers the ears, frames the face, suits almost everyone. It also covers the most forehead of the three, which shortens the face. If you are only going to wear it one way, this is the way.
- Rolled up, sitting higher. Shorter and tidier, and it gives you back a band of forehead. That opens the face up rather than closing it in, which suits a rounder face, and it is worth trying if a single cuff feels like it is swallowing you.
- Slouchy, pushed back with the extra fabric behind. The height goes above the crown rather than around your face, which lengthens the whole silhouette. Good on a round or square face, less so on a long one. It needs something to grip, so on very smooth hair or a bare scalp wear a headband underneath or it will keep creeping backward.
One thing worth knowing: a beanie sitting high and tight on the crown, with no fold and nothing at the sides, is the shape that makes any face look longer and narrower than it is. If a beanie has never suited you, that is probably why. Pull it down, or add a cuff.
Baseball caps: profile and brim
Caps vary more than they look. The two things that decide whether one suits you are rarely on the label.
Profile is height. Structure is stiffness. They often come together but they are not the same thing. A low profile crown sits close to the head; a high profile one has more height above the brim. A structured crown holds its shape off your head; an unstructured one softens and follows your head.
Height is what changes your face. A high profile cap adds it, which helps a round or square face and can overwhelm a small or fine-boned one. If caps have always made your head look tall or boxy, high profile is why.
The brim can be curved. A flat brim draws a hard horizontal line across the face; a curved one wraps toward you and softens it. Which you want is taste rather than a rule, though a curve is the easier of the two to wear. If yours came flat and you want it curved, bend it gently with your hands over a few days rather than forcing it in one go.
Wide brims and berets, without feeling like you are in costume
This is the fear that keeps most of us in baseball caps, and it is worth naming out loud: the worry that a proper hat looks like you are playing a part rather than getting dressed.
Three things separate a hat that reads as costume from one that reads as yours.
- Everything else stays ordinary. A wide brim with a plain sweater and jeans looks like a person who wears hats. The same hat with a matching outfit, statement boots and a scarf looks like a look. One interesting thing at a time.
- The angle is not straight on. A dramatic hat worn dead square is theatrical. Tilted, it relaxes immediately.
- It fits. A wide brim that is slightly too big is what actually reads as dress-up, because it sits low and swamps the face.
A beret looks most relaxed pushed back off the forehead and pulled to one side. Worn centered and pulled down flat, it reads a great deal more severe. That one adjustment is most of the difference.
Keeping a hat on in wind
Losing a wide brim to a gust is a particular kind of embarrassment, and it is worth a minute of prevention.
- Get the fit right first. A loose fit makes wind far worse, and a hat that lifts easily is often slightly too big, so the fix is usually back in the fit section rather than out here.
- A headband underneath adds grip, which matters most if you have no hair, since there is nothing for the hat to hold onto.
- Wear it further back and tilted on a windy day. A brim angled into the wind acts like a sail.
- Hairpins through the band work if you have hair to pin to. Some sun hats have a hidden chin cord, which is worth looking for if you are somewhere properly blustery.
Hat Etiquette, Briefly
Head coverings worn for medical, religious or cultural reasons sit outside ordinary hat etiquette. If you are wearing a hat because of hair loss, you are not obliged to take it off to be polite. Not indoors, not at the table, not at a wedding. Comfort and dignity outrank etiquette here, and you never owe anyone an explanation for keeping your head covered.
When does a hat come off?
Modern etiquette depends far more on the kind of hat than on who is wearing it. Casual caps and beanies follow the old remove-indoors convention. Dressier hats worn as part of an outfit get much more latitude.
Off: at the dinner table, in a private home, during the national anthem or a moment of respect, at religious services unless head covering is part of the practice, and in a theater or cinema where a brim blocks the view behind you.
Fine to keep on: outdoors, and in the in-between indoor spaces people pass through rather than settle in, such as lobbies, corridors, elevators and shops.
Are hats business casual? A structured hat, a beret or a neat turban reads as part of an outfit and passes in most business casual settings, particularly on the way in and out. A baseball cap or a beanie does not. In an office, at a meeting or across a desk, the safe move is to take a casual hat off and leave a dressier one on only if it is clearly deliberate.
When you are unsure, read the room. If the setting feels formal or quiet, taking it off is the safer move. And if a venue posts a rule, follow it.
Where to put a hat you have taken off
Crown down, never brim down, and never on the table. Resting a hat on its brim is what flattens and warps it over time, so this is as much about the hat as about manners.
A hat rack if there is one, otherwise an empty chair beside you. And hold it so the inside faces you rather than the room.
Can I wear a fedora indoors?
Sometimes. It depends on the room and the occasion. A fedora at a casual party, clearly part of what you are wearing, is fine. At a sit-down dinner or a formal professional event it is less so.
If you have a formal event and would feel self-conscious taking your hat off, an elegant turban or a pre-tied scarf solves the problem completely. Both read as deliberate dressing rather than as head covering, and neither needs removing.
Questions We Get Asked
My hat slides around. How do I stop it?
Almost always a size problem rather than a hat problem, and the fit section has the fix in full: sizing tape inside the band, or a thin headband underneath, which also adds grip.
One exception worth knowing. If the hat is the right size and still slides, that is friction rather than fit, and it happens on very smooth hair or a bare scalp because there is nothing for the hat to hold onto. Tape will not help with that. A headband or a liner will, and a scarf gripper is made for exactly this, worn underneath to give the hat or scarf something to hold.
Can I wear a hat with heels, or to a dressy event?
Yes, provided the hat and the outfit are speaking the same language. A structured brim or a good turban works beautifully with something dressy. A knit beanie or a baseball cap will fight it.
The one thing worth checking at an event is whether your brim is going to block the person behind you. If it might, choose something closer to the head.
Everything looks wrong on me. What am I missing?
Nine times out of ten it is one of three things, in this order of likelihood.
The fit. Too big is the most common, and it makes any hat look borrowed. Check that a brimmed hat sits clear of your ears.
The angle. Straight on is rarely the most flattering position. Tilt it and look again.
The shape. If a hat repeats what your face already does, it will feel off even when you cannot say why. That is when the contrast rule earns its keep.
If you have worked through all three and still are not happy, it may simply not be your hat, and that is fine. It took most of us a few tries.
Does wearing a hat cause hair loss?
A comfortably fitted hat is unlikely to cause hair loss. The evidence on this is not as clear-cut as either side of the argument suggests, but an ordinary hat worn normally is not the thing to worry about.
What can put strain on hair is a hat worn very tight, very hot or against a rough lining day after day, and more often the hairstyle underneath it. A tight ponytail or tight braids pulled back under a cap put far more tension on the roots than the hat does.
The rule of thumb is the same as everywhere else on this page. A hat should not pinch, pull, or leave a mark that is still there ten minutes after you take it off.
Does "one size fits most" really fit most people?
For women's hats, usually yes. Soft styles give, so one size covers a wide range of women comfortably, and that is why we do not ask you to measure for most of what we make.
The hats that really do need a size are the structured ones. A formal brimmed hat with a fixed band, the sort worn to weddings and race meetings, is built more like a men's hat and has no stretch at all. Those are worth measuring for. Everyday women's hats are far more forgiving.
Some women feel pressure around the head more than others. If that is you, you already know it, and it is a preference rather than a problem. Choose softer styles, and size up when you are between.
Does a hat have to match my outfit?
No, and trying to match exactly is usually what makes an outfit look overworked. Aim for the same tone family and the same general level of formality, then let the hat be its own thing. A neutral hat with a bit of texture will go with far more than a hat bought to match one dress.
Why We Care About This
In 1990 my mother Carol lost her hair to breast cancer treatment and could not find a single thing she wanted to wear. She was a hairstylist, so she understood immediately that coverage on its own was not enough. A head covering also had to restore the proportion her hair used to give her, frame her face, and look like something she had chosen rather than something she had settled for. We started Headcovers together in 1995 on that idea.
A great many of the women we have fitted since came to us not because they wanted a hat but because they suddenly needed one. That is why this page runs as long as it does. A hat is a small thing right up until it is the thing standing between you and leaving the house.
Whether you are here for a sun hat, for the next six months, or for good, we would rather you found one you actually like wearing.
And if you have read all this and decided hats are not for you after all, that is a real answer too. Scarves exist. So does going without. The point was never the hat.
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